Saving the Wrong Relationship
Many people are involved in a relationship that doesn’t serve them anymore. We work hard to keep the relationship alive, but the more we try, the more we suffer. Can you relate? Are you involved in a relationship in which you spend most of the time suffering or fighting?
Have you ever asked why you constantly keep fighting and saving something that cannot be saved?
Here is the reality: We keep fighting for such a relationship because we are scared. Mostly, we are scared to be alone because we think that being single is going to kill us. Our fear blocks our vision and tells us that we can’t live without the other person. And so we keep fighting and saving the wrong relationship. Instead of letting go, we go against the flow.
Have you ever thought about how it would feel to be free and happy on your own? Most of us don’t believe it’s possible. Most of us are searching for somebody to fulfill us. Why do we do that? Because we search for love and happiness and we mistakenly think that we can find that love in the other person. Now, here is the other truth:We can’t find anything in another person that we cannot give.
If you keep searching for love in another person because you want to be loved and you want to fill the hole inside of you, you are simply wasting your time. Nobody will ever love you unless you love yourself. The way to love yourself is to first find yourself. If you don’t know who you are, how can you expect your partner to know who you are? How can you expect another person to love you if he/she doesn’t know who you are?
That’s all. The only solution to real and lasting happiness is to find your true self. Find the Love and Light in you because you are the Love and Light. When you do, you won’t need to look for it outside. That will be the moment when things shift. People will come to you. The right partner will show up. Exciting new business opportunities will show up.
Start within. Don’t waste any more time changing other people. Change yourself. Let go of any relationship that doesn’t serve you anymore. Allow a new energy enter into your life. Stop saving something that can’t be saved. It’s only your FEAR that blocks your vision. It’s not reality. Let go, and go with the Life flow.
Remember, if you don’t jump, you cannot fly! Nobody will push you. You and only you can push yourself.
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