Outside reality is a reflection of your inner world
As I mentioned in my previous article, the law of attraction won’t work for you unless you change your subconscious beliefs. What you see in your reality is a reflection of your inner reality. Your inner reality is governed by your subconscious mind. Therefore, it is one thing to desire something and another thing entirely to attract it into your life. The reason you can’t manifest that perfect job or desired relationship is because you subconsciously don’t believe it’s possible. The reason you can’t manifest the perfect lifestyle is because, subconsciously, you don’t believe you are worth it.
Face your fears
You must be willing to step into your suppressed emotions. Let’s imagine a situation. You just met a new guy whom you really like. He invites you out for dinner and after the dinner he doesn’t call you. You really liked each other and you thought that he might be the one. You thought that because of the huge attraction between you two, the connection you felt was something very special. The next day he won’t call. Three days later he still won’t call. He never calls again. You are angry and sad at the same time. You feel worthless. You feel unloved. You feel like you aren’t good enough. You feel like the biggest loser ever. You blame yourself for everything.
Now let’s apply the principle of the law of attraction. The law of attraction is basically the law of a mirror. Whatever you experience in your outside reality is a reflection of yourself. Whatever you experience outside are your subconscious beliefs in action. Now you are experiencing rejection. Some random guy doesn’t respond to you and his reaction brings you down. He brings you down, not because you can’t live without him, but because his act of refusal brought up some unresolved suppressed emotions inside of you. He is reflecting your self-worth.
Let’s say when you were a little child your parents didn’t pay enough attention to you. Let’s say they worked so many hours that you were frequently left alone. Maybe you had a bad teacher who punished you for something in such a way that left emotional scars on you. What you did as a child was to suppress these emotions. The same emotion is still inside of you and it’s stored in your subconscious mind. This particular emotion created a subconscious belief about yourself that you are not good enough.
What do you do with this information?
You must go back to your childhood and take care of your inner child. You must be willing to experience the same emotion over again and then you must be willing to forgive yourself, others and send some love to your inner child.
Therefore, whenever you feel negative emotion inside of you, be willing to feel the emotion to the fullest and ask yourself a question: “When did I feel this emotion for the first time?” and then listen. Whatever comes up is the right answer. You may see, hear or taste the answer. Just wait and observe yourself. Then give your inner child love. Give yourself lots of love. Ask yourself for forgiveness.
This is what you must do with every single unresolved emotion. Go deep enough and love yourself. What will happen next is that you start to change your subconscious beliefs that govern your current reality. You start attracting whatever you want, because it’s not you who is attracting it, it’s your subconscious mind.
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